I'm 19 years old, and I've been an anarcho-communist for at least two years. There are many reasons for my espousal of anarcho-communism, but one notable motivation for becoming an anarchist comes from my contempt for the way I've been treated by some family members, particularly my father. Ever since I've known him, he has completely controlled almost every aspect of my life via physical abuse, economic coercion, and verbal threats of abandonment, violence, eviction, etc. Worst of all, when he finds out that I am transgender and non-Muslim, he'll likely resort to even worse behavior e.g. trying to "cure" me of my transness and/or physically abusing me more than ever (I hate to say it, but even murder can't be ruled out - knowing the way he is).
I don't want any more kids and teenagers to go through what I have been going through. There are children who have it worse than me, such as those who are being sexually abused by their parents and/or relatives. And children whose atypical gender identity and/or non-straight sexual orientation is known to their parents, who abuse them for not being "normal." Such children deserve to get out of their abusive situation and start to rebuild their lives, recover, and thrive. They need someone to talk to, a chance to recover and thrive, and an escape from circumstances that no one deserves to face.
There are already organizations dedicated to serving youth in need of help. But they are all statist organizations, which I cannot work with for reasons that are probably clear to everyone. Like many others here, I wish for anarchist solutions to social problems, not authoritarian solutions.
So here is my question: how can anarchists go about helping the youth and reaching out to them via anarchist means? Perhaps it can be done through anarchist youth organizations, consisting of both youth anarchists and non-youth anarchists? I am very interested in suggestions you folks may have to offer, considering that I don't hear this topic brought up very often among fellow anarchists. I apologize if I'm coming off as navel-gazing or self-righteous - I just mentioned my personal experience to provide some added perspective (for lack of a better term) to the topic.



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All I can say is, as far as unsolicited advice goes, if you think your father will murder you for being tans try your hardest to become economically independent ASAP and then put some safe barriers between you two. I'm not sure about how anarchists OR Marxists can help people through socialistic means under advanced capitalism- these immediate issues, such as the one you're facing, can probably be navigated within more liberal social justice means (rather than revolutionary communist theory/action) depending on where you live. If in America in a large city on either the far east or far west coast you may be able to find a shelter or free housing programs so as to escape any immediate threat an abuser may pose.
Some resources for people in Northern CA:
http://tgsf.org/2013/03/03/284951/
I'm sure you can find, in the US, rural farming "collectives" but this isn't necessarily anarchism in action or anything but a utopian sort of Owenite thing- that environment would probably be safer for people facing daily abuse. My experience is we've never had the funds to do any sort of large scale meaningful community work. It's rough when most of us are on the hamster wheel grinding out an existence. I'm not sure how much anarchists could do in so far as material/financial support, the focus has been on, as far as issues such as this, changing the way people think but I agree that's not enough. This is what capitalism does, it dispossesses us of the ability to even form viable community based alternatives to the nuclear family and capitalist relations. It's fucked.