If you think its humiliating or degrading dont do it. I dont particularly think it is but I wouldnt force the issue with someone who feels uncomfortable with it. Its not about humiliation if the other person is up for it too. Spitting is only acceptable during particularly rough anal sex.
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This is very good, I mean your answer. Well around the humiliation part, I wanted to go a bit deeper. I do know and understand the sense of game but either I am too conservative or too much of a dominatrix but I think it is weird since it gives the girl no pleasure except maybe gustatively and it is all visual for the guy so what is it all about? Reproducing a domination just for few second? Nah I don't get it. I totally agree on the anal sex thing, nothing wrong with that.
It definitely makes it a more visual experience and I suppose actually seeing your cum is quite a weird experience. I used to think that it was definitely about humiliation now I'm not so sure. Like Weeler says if you find it humiliating then don't do it, unless you happen to like humiliation. I'm not sure that it necessarily gives the woman no pleasure some people don't enjoy giving or sometimes receiving oral sex for example. There's a bit in Genet about the person giving the blowjob being the active party and the one receiving it being passive, but you might have trouble finding many people who thought getting one was disempowering. A back and forth of power is, or even set positions are not really a problem as long as everyone involved is happy with it that way. Humiliation is more a way of using that power.
To coming back to the coming on faces thing I suppose people pick it up from porn and like porn it is to a large extent about doing stuff just because you can. There was a gay porn producer who said some interesting stuff about this, about how it's no longer about sex but just about doing things to someone.
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I think that this comment pretty much explains the problem in this case.
also clearly the face is the best bit because it's the hottest part of the body, unless it's a but'er girl. I never fully understood whether aiming at their gob counts as a facial or only if you cover them all over the face, I don't think there's anything hot about a girl trying to get cum out of stingy eyes.
weeler wrote:
Its a cosmetic treatment of the face, commonly involving a variety of skin treatments, including: steam, exfoliation, extraction, creams, lotions. Type it into google image search there.turns out it's when a lad spunks on someone's face
I am pretty sure thats what I said. 
last time I dj'd (i.e. got paid to play records) I did a bit of the oul scratching on the cd decks for a laugh. It sounded amazing. Me and Mara weree doing 'fuck the police' with 'i want to break free' - it was a delightfully hilarious mess. Most people left after that.
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In general I am against facials cos they really hurt when you get cum in your eyes but it is a domination thing, the guy gets pleasure from knowing that he is going to commit the act rather than committing it so therefore if you refuse to do it it will become his biggest fantasy and he will eventually have to visit counselling because the desire will be so all consuming.
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Nowget light-hearted or you're gonna get hurt. 
My boyfriend thinks that coming on women's faces is fun. I think not. First, it hurts if it goes in your eyes and also I do find it slightly humiliating. So I got told that I was a crazy feminist with insane theories and that it was by no mean degrading. He added that there was nothing wrong with spitting either.
I mean I am quite open minded and ready to listen to his sexist crap but come on! is it not the humiliating bit the exciting part?