so, I broke up with my girlfriend...
Jul 26 2008
#2
I could give you advice, but it wouldnt help so much. Dont look back, it sucks but just find something new.
Jul 26 2008
#3
You could start by not posting it on Libcom looking advice 
Jul 26 2008
#4
J - It took me 20+ years, parenthood and a failed marriage to find "the one". And after next Friday we will never see each other again... and not through my choice. Change is inevitable, and most of the time it hurts like hell but if you weren't a fighter you wouldn't be bandying words here on libcom. I could do the voice of experience/we are your friends/plenty more fish in the sea routine that my virtual friends have rightly dismissed above, but like them I know it's a crock of shit. Drugs, booze, one night stands, nightclubbing and the best clothes TK Maxx can offer won't fill the void either.
Accept it. Treasure the insane thought that somebody once loved you. They loved you, regardless of all your faults. You'll be a better lover for it next time around. And - oh shit, I said I wouldn't do this - there is always a next time.
Jul 26 2008
#5
Same Bat time, same Bat channel?
Jul 26 2008
#6
Refused wrote:
Same Bat time, same Bat channel?
It's Friday, it's five to five... and its still the same crackerjack humour. Well saved Refused, I almost fell for my own romantic gibberish there. 
Jul 26 2008
#7
Udo_Bukowski wrote:
Drugs, booze, one night stands, nightclubbing and the best clothes TK Maxx can offer won't fill the void either. .
That's my 5-point plan scrapped then. 
But yeah, what Udo said.
Jul 26 2008
#8
Udo_Bukowski wrote:
J - It took me 20+ years, parenthood and a failed marriage to find "the one". And after next Friday we will never see each other again... and not through my choice. Change is inevitable, and most of the time it hurts like hell but if you weren't a fighter you wouldn't be bandying words here on libcom. I could do the voice of experience/we are your friends/plenty more fish in the sea routine that my virtual friends have rightly dismissed above, but like them I know it's a crock of shit. Drugs, booze, one night stands, nightclubbing and the best clothes TK Maxx can offer won't fill the void either.Accept it. Treasure the insane thought that somebody once loved you. They loved you, regardless of all your faults. You'll be a better lover for it next time around. And - oh shit, I said I wouldn't do this - there is always a next time.
That's a lovely post
Jul 26 2008
#9
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Drugs, booze, one night stands, nightclubbing and the best clothes TK Maxx can offer won't fill the void either.
Jul 26 2008
#10
Weeler wrote:
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Drugs, booze, one night stands, nightclubbing and the best clothes TK Maxx can offer won't fill the void either.:(
Don't believe it. Those all sound like good void filling things.
Jul 26 2008
#11
thugarchist wrote:
Weeler wrote:
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Drugs, booze, one night stands, nightclubbing and the best clothes TK Maxx can offer won't fill the void either.:(
Don't believe it. Those all sound like good void filling things.
Yada, yoda... Romantic landfill that is. Read Barthes it is, van walk under. Affirm novels.
Jul 27 2008
#12
Deleted as pissed rambling. Couldn't take the embarrasment of scrolling past it any longer.
Jul 27 2008
#13
Udo_Bukowski wrote:
It took me 20+ years, parenthood and a failed marriage to find "the one". And after next Friday we will never see each other again... and not through my choice.
crikey, i'm really really sorry.
and to juozokas too.
Jul 27 2008
#14
I met up with the love of my life tonight and we decided it was all just too intense. This bawwthread is amazing, poor udo.
baww.
Jul 27 2008
#15
Well, amazingly enough I woke up this morning and I wasn't dead. So I threw all the remain drugs and booze down the toilet and just decided to get on with it.
Thanks for putting up with me everyone.
Jul 27 2008
#16
Jesus seems like everyone's breaking up atm, same thing happened to me at the weekend along with at least a couple of other long-termers I know.
Jul 27 2008
#17
Saii wrote:
Jesus seems like everyone's breaking up atm, same thing happened to me at the weekend along with at least a couple of other long-termers I know.
Too true. My heart goes out to you. As a stopgap I'm moving in with a friend who's live-in lover of seven years just walked out claiming he "needed space". Still on the upside it means I might be free to do some archiving for you soon. I promise not to cry on your shoulder if you don't cry on mine.
Jul 27 2008
#18
Fortunately I'm somewhat emotionally stunted so shall be dealing with it by screwing it all up into a ball of white-hot rage, which shall then eventually be recycled in the form of a high workrate on selected projects and occasional outbursts of irrational anger, so no shoulders required
Jul 27 2008
#19
I would suggest a group hug, but I'm on the antagonistic cynical part of my hormonal cycle at the moment. Now gentlemen, shall we get on with improving our lives? We will all find someone good at some point, I am sure of it xxx
Jul 27 2008
#20
Saii wrote:
Jesus seems like everyone's breaking up atm, same thing happened to me at the weekend along with at least a couple of other long-termers I know.
Three people I know of this week. Most break-ups happen in the first week of January but there seems to be something in the air at the minute. I expect a lot of late-summer reconciliations.
Jul 27 2008
#21
Not in my case I fear. Friends, yes. Partners, never again.
Jul 27 2008
#22
Being single is like totally awesome. You can have sex with whoever you want, whenever you want. Of course there's the part where you go home and spend the night hugging the pillow and crying alone just wishing you had someone to love again... but yeah, SEX.
Argh 
Jul 27 2008
#23
Man this is such an uplifting thread
Jul 27 2008
#24
Jul 27 2008
#25
Noooooooooooooooooo!
Jul 27 2008
#26
wow, thanks everyone, actually made me feel a litle better believe it or not. Udo, that was cool thanks heaps and I really hope it works out for you. What you said made so much sense and it sounds like you are in a sadder place then me - 20 years!!
My friends said the usual 'enjoy the single life' - yeah, it's fantastic.
My last girlfriend I was with for 3 years and it was relatively easy cause by then we hated each others guts but this just sucks so bad. Plus she has a kid that got pretty attached to me and vice versa which sux and makes me feel even worse
Anyway, it's been 2 days. I will resurrect this thread when I am cured or if I relapse and
Jul 27 2008
#27
Grace wrote:
Being single is like totally awesome. You can have sex with whoever you want, whenever you want.
women 
Jul 27 2008
#28
My relationship is going great. Stop being whiners.
Jul 27 2008
#29
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Being single is like totally awesome. You can have sex with whoever you want, whenever you want.
women
haha, exactly. Last I checked, no means no.
Jul 27 2008
#30
thugarchist wrote:
My relationship is going great. Stop being whiners.
Yeh, but its with an anarchist. Pretty boring.
Sorry to hear that babe. If it is any consolation, quite a few of us on here seem to be unwillingly single,so you can talk about it if it'll make you feel better and we won't take the piss. Well, I won't. Here, I give you nice pictures...
take care of yourself xx