Bullying at Work

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ftony
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Jan 11 2006 09:42
Bullying at Work

howdy all, just a bit of advice needed...

my girlfriend is currently being harrassed quite badly for stuff the person who she took over from didn't do. she's trying really hard and working extra hours to do it but the finance boss (who else!) is still nipping at her heels all the damn time and maing her feel completely victimised and run-down and her performance in the rest of her job is suffering. For the next few days she's been forced to work pretty much in solitary confinement on a computer that has no access to her emails (networking is the main part of her job) or the rest of her user area. And i'd say that was bullying and intimidation and for stuff that isn't her fault

so she's not unionised (despite how hard i try), but it doesn't really affect the situation because she's still in her probationary period where trade unions are not recognised anyway.

help!!

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Jan 11 2006 10:05

Alright, ftony.

This from elsewhere on libcom: -

http://www.libcom.org/organise/personal/articles/bully-work.php

All I'd add or emphasise is that she should start a bullying diary, and write down exactly what happens, when it happens. Back in the day when I was a union rep, a member doing that made the difference between his winning his Tribunal & losing it.

All the best.

Jason Cortez
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Jan 11 2006 11:24

This stite is pretty comprehensive

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/index.htm

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Jan 11 2006 11:29
ftony wrote:
so she's not unionised (despite how hard i try), but it doesn't really affect the situation because she's still in her probationary period where trade unions are not recognised anyway.

confused

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Jan 11 2006 11:37

http://www.worksmart.org.uk/health/viewsubsubsection.php?ssn=14

that might help smile

ftony
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Jan 11 2006 13:41

cheers all

8)

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Jan 11 2006 22:32

Get her to email her boss if she can, hopefully he will respond via email and then she has a paper trail and proof.

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Jan 11 2006 22:42

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Do you want to get the boss sacked? It's doable. Is it a male one?

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Jan 11 2006 22:45
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Do want to get the boss sacked? It's doable. Is it a male one?

Love

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If he tries to sack her or if there is any problem it is best to have a paper trail. It's always worth covering your back.

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Jan 11 2006 23:28

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Yes, I suppose. Did you think I was arguing with you?

If he's male, subscribe him to a nasty Sexy Secretary Chokes on her Bosses Cock website, tip off a mate in IT if have to, then pass one day, be grossly offended, make a complaint. Instant dismissal. If you can find a "pre-teen" site, you might even get the cops on his case.

Love

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Jan 12 2006 00:37
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Yes, I suppose. Did you think I was arguing with you?

If he's male, subscribe him to a nasty Sexy Secretary Chokes on her Bosses Cock website, tip off a mate in IT if have to, then pass one day, be grossly offended, make a complaint. Instant dismissal. If you can find a "pre-teen" site, you might even get the cops on his case.

Love

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It seems that way, I'm not sure really.

I suppose I figured getting him sacked for what he actually did was best.

Although your ideas are definitely more effective.

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Jan 12 2006 00:44

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It's time to stop being the victims in the class war. Attack! And hang the consequences.

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ftony
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Jan 12 2006 09:49

hoho i like the ideas mister riser but alas the boss concerned is female and therefore is unlikely to have a cock, except the poultry version

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Jan 12 2006 11:59
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If he's male, subscribe him to a nasty Sexy Secretary Chokes on her Bosses Cock website,

doubt if it would work. it'd only be blocked by the spamfilter.

anyway, what reason did she give for putting your girlfriend in the isolation ward ftony? surely she didn't say your performance is crap so your being punished?

its a crap situation though. i've been put on a "patch" (three estates) which were not worked at all cause of staff absence for six months and a month into taking it over, i'm getting all the stick for their neglect.

bosses eh? ratpoo in chocolate brownies. its the only way to take revenge.

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Jan 12 2006 12:33
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ratpoo in chocolate brownies. its the only way to take revenge.

If you need some ratpoo, I could sort you out there.

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Jan 12 2006 13:13

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Lucy's point about spamification is, as usual, excellent. Good to see she's tried it. Hence, the requirement for a bit of inside help from your friendly IT department.

Nevertheless, the spirit of her point is even more important. Revenge is key! If you knuckle under to the boss's demands it will continue well after the probationary period, in fact it’ll get worse as you become more dependant on the job. The Department of Work and Pensions do not take kindly to Directors bullying people back on to the dole queue, but the right thing to do to maximise your return on action depends a lot on how big the company is and the management structure (if any) that sits above your boss.

If they’re one of those hideous “Investor in People” type firms, perhaps you might like to consider shopping them and getting their handsome certification revoked.

The bullying boss will never go away unless decisive action is taken to cause them extreme pain and humiliation, it may be best just to cut your losses and get another job.

Don’t think I’m turning soft here, but some bosses genuinely don’t mean to be pushy, they just naturally take people for granted as part of their psychological make up. I know it sounds strange, but if you’re so expendable that you can’t just ask the boss to show you how to cope with all the work they’re giving you, then you’re not going to be around for very long anyway, and it’ll just get worse with time.

If you could give (or PM) me more details of the company, I might be able to come up with some more harebrained schemes to amuse and delight you. How about an e-mail campaign to the company from potential business prospects who’ve been personally insulted by the boss in question and will be taking their business elsewhere.

Get someone in IT to get your boss's password to your web-based accounting system or business email, and make it look as though she divulged it to a criminal.

Spam porn to all the local schools from your boss's email account, she might take a look at her life and get the message she’s fooling with the wrong people.

LR

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Jan 12 2006 13:17

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Get her home address and subscribe her to a doggers' or swinging site. Personal callers welcome.

"Love"

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Jan 12 2006 13:18
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Spam porn to all the local schools from your boss's email account

Nice. 8)

Steve
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Jan 12 2006 14:01

Trouble is nowadays everyone sees bullying/intimidation from bosses as a personal thing directed only against themselves. Later it’s found that others are being bullied. Unless we get back to collective action in the workplace we won’t get anywhere. I know doing something as an individual as suggested but it won’t solve the long term problem.

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Jan 12 2006 14:31

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I know doing something as an individual as suggested but it won’t solve the long term problem.

Quite correct Steve, but I think it's a bit unfair to assume anyone here suggested "acting as an individual". Most of these suggestions require some collaboration. The thing is not to keep it amongst the "victims" but use your comrades' relative security to your mutual advantage.

Love

LR

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Jan 12 2006 20:16

This is all very pat and easy because we've been talking about bullying from a boss.

What I'm wondering is, what's a good (and sufficiently anarchist or libertarian-commie) way to deal with bullying from a co-worker? I'm in a pretty terrible situation right now, which I could easily have resolved months ago by appealing to a boss or supervisor.

(More relevant background: We are file clerks--think mailroom work. No union involved, and little chance of one anytime soon.)

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Jan 12 2006 20:45

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Go round their house and spunk up on a pillow (or get someone else to, if you can't manage it). That'll learn 'em.

Seriously, if they're evil just get a bunch of mates round and kick their head in after work.

Love

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Jan 12 2006 20:47

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If you want to make it especially commie, torture them until they disclose their pin number and make 'em give you cash out of their ATM. I assure you, they won't bother you again.

Love

LR

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Jan 12 2006 21:48
MJ wrote:
What I'm wondering is, what's a good (and sufficiently anarchist or libertarian-commie) way to deal with bullying from a co-worker? I'm in a pretty terrible situation right now, which I could easily have resolved months ago by appealing to a boss or supervisor.

Then do it. People who give you grief because they think you're too good natured to shop them are arseholes.

ps another thing about bosses is that they often hassle the good workers (who will listen to them) while completely ignore the ones who do fuck all. I've been in that situation a few times and a confrontation with the boss usualy does the trick.

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Jan 12 2006 21:52

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What's the difference between getting an inept boss to deal with an evil colleague and voting Labour to keep the Tories out?

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LR

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Jan 12 2006 22:00
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What's the difference between getting an inept boss to deal with an evil colleague and voting Labour to keep the Tories out?

Love

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Not enough I fear.

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Jan 13 2006 09:03

Find a way of identifying a bully so that it opens a discussion among the workforce.

Take several photographs of the offender and superglue them to the splashbacks in the urinals and loos.

Never fails to get people talking and asking why. Makes a bullying boss examine his/her own reputation and strikes a real note of fear in their heart.

Sometimes, power can be so intimidating that it takes acts of cunning and daring to unsettle it.

Peter Good (TCA)

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Jan 13 2006 09:12

Hi

Another fluid-oriented activist. A man after my own heart, and revol68's.

Love

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