Why DO so many lame men rely on prostitution and porn in order to "connect" with women/their sexuality..

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Dec 19 2006 20:16

i'm no more or less bizarre than anyone else revol, and neither are you, although it's possible you are more irritating. grin

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Dec 19 2006 20:26

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Stop chatting each other up. arf, if you could see him, you'd give up all this celibacy lark.

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Dec 19 2006 20:47

for revol? i don't reckon.

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Dec 19 2006 21:04

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Psychologies
The first women's magazine that's about what we're like, not just what we look like. If you're interested in the ways we think, behave and connect, then this is for you. Whether you want to develop your own potential, or become a better parent, partner or friend, we'll bring you the ideas, insights and inspiration to help you do it.

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Dec 19 2006 21:10
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for revol? i don't reckon.

just right, keep it mean, the whole dynamic would collapse if the desire was admitted.

You sure you've never read psychoanalysis, cos your very good at this shit.

thats not all im good at wink

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Dec 19 2006 21:17

interestingly, revol, you do remind me of my dad. he's a narcissist too wink

i think thats quite amusing myself. imagine, in another thirty years, your daughter may be arguing with someone just like you on the internet. it almost makes me feel warm inside tongue

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Dec 19 2006 21:29

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interestingly, revol, you do remind me of my dad. he's a narcissist too

That's it. arf is revol68. He's chatting up a made up celebate girl as part of a ploy to convince us he's going to get some this Christmas. I bet arf will be flying over any minute, you wait and see.

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Dec 19 2006 21:31

busted!

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Dec 20 2006 03:30

LR

In general -

You waffle. A lot.

Psychologies magazine is terrible - a veritable affront to humanity - just AWFUL - sooo self-absorbed - I am sure you agree but do NOT place me in that camp unless you want the next cake I serve you with to be laced with a lil' polonium.. tongue

George S

Watch out or Revol will be down on you for proclaiming..
It is good you published those lyrics - tho i was expecting the lyrics to that song from the Proclaimers.. I think it was called something like "Letter from America.. " and had a few lyrics sang/spoken in.. Gaelic or summat? Anyone remember this???

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Dec 20 2006 13:46

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Psychologies magazine is terrible - a veritable affront to humanity - just AWFUL - sooo self-absorbed - I am sure you agree but do NOT place me in that camp unless you want the next cake I serve you with to be laced with a lil' polonium

The clear implication here is that the post regarding “Psychologies magazine” constitutes a personal attack. It being Christmas, it may be better to politely overlook these irrational feelings of paranoia. But against my better judgement I will, instead, use it as an example of the kind of psychological flaw that plagues the liberal radical milieu, especially it’s Internet resident portion.

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Regardless, it merely demonstrates, once again, that “radicals” operate on different level than normal people. Luckily enough, their delusion that their feelings have some general meaning renders them too ineffective to do any real harm.

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In general -

You waffle. A lot.

Besides being uncalled for, your remark is mere waffle in itself. Other than the importance of your feelings, LW, have you any points to make?

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LR

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Dec 20 2006 15:56

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Dec 20 2006 16:23

wow. that was random. keep it to the other thread please, until we get bored of misogyny boy

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Dec 20 2006 17:30

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Dec 21 2006 02:25

Cheers admin for splitting off the troll geek... no issues there then.. roll eyes not sure whether or not he knows his comments show an equal disregard for men, but i shouldn't think he cares.. no sense, no feeling.. roll eyes

Lazy

I admit I find you a bit incomprehensible at times.. but some of my other comments to you are just teasing..and I don't know whether you realise this and are teasing me back in kind or not sometimes.. because sometimes I find you a bit incomprehensible.. neutral

Anyway, love and stuff...

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Dec 21 2006 02:50

What have you got against farting under the covers? I'm serious.

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Dec 24 2006 14:15
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but i shouldn't think he cares.. no sense, no feeling..

see i think he's a cock but at the sametime i don't like this bullshit were we all have to be all feeling as some sort of political act. The guys a prick but he's a prick in away that is hardly of significance politically and is pretty common. Whether he kisses his girlfriend in the morning or farts under the covers is of no concern to me. It's her problem and if she's willing to put up with it then she's welcome.

idiot.

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Dec 25 2006 18:35
revol68 wrote:
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but i shouldn't think he cares.. no sense, no feeling..

see i think he's a cock but at the sametime i don't like this bullshit were we all have to be all feeling as some sort of political act. The guys a prick but he's a prick in away that is hardly of significance politically and is pretty common. Whether he kisses his girlfriend in the morning or farts under the covers is of no concern to me. It's her problem and if she's willing to put up with it then she's welcome.

idiot.

Okay then Arf please put forward some concrete suggestions for dealing with such relationship problems, beyond retarded radfem consciousness raising.

Didn't Dot(?) post some good stuff here a long time ago on exactly this? She had a link to some PDF and it was very thoughtful.

i don't think we can just drop people back onto themselves in some neo-liberal fashion of "personal responsibility", when the issue is not merely that, but social power.

Chris

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Dec 25 2006 20:00

you dont half talk rubbish.

btw - it was that 'patronising consciousness raising' that allowed women to see that 'individual' relationship problems were in fact a societal structure that keeps women as second class citizens. CR has allowed women from all sorts of backgrounds to make connections and become political - that is, see the politics in their own lives and make changes towards a better future for their daughters.

i think you take your academic background for granted, and that naturally means you'd slag off consciousness raising as not political, or perhaps intellectual, enough for you. its petty and its, dare i say, elitist? its also a damn convenient way for you to be anti feminist and anti womens movement whilst still pretending to give 'support' to womens struggle. if only we would quit navel gazing and going out with shitheads, then women wouldnt still be struggling! perhaps i should send that round the wimmins as a christmas memo, it could change all our lives overnight!

yeh, you want us all to be 'equal', you just 'hate the way we go about it'. even more hilarious coming from someone who singlehandedly scares away who knows how many people from this site and 'libertarian communism' or anarchism or whatever you're pretending to be expert on this week.

and it strikes me that for someone who complains about moralising so much, you dont half do a lot of it. i imagine theres a different term for when you do it though, something that validates what you're doing as if it's necessary and clever. you're such a bloody hypocrite revol! if only you could see it.

arf
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Dec 25 2006 22:23

id appreciate it if you'ld stop talking through your anus but i guess we'll both have to be disappointed.

arf
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Dec 26 2006 19:40

id rather be a cunt than a cock.

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Dec 26 2006 21:14

i was playing with you, fool.

its like you've become so bloody bitter and obsessed that you've entirely lost your sense of humour.

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Dec 26 2006 21:26

dearestboy - i am a superhot ice queen and you do know it, its why you cant leave me alone. x

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Dec 26 2006 21:34

wink

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Dec 26 2006 23:04
revol68 wrote:
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dearestboy - i am a superhot ice queen and you do know it, its why you cant leave me alone. x

fuck if arf turns out to be some homosexual man in a wig it's going to be even more embarrassing than the time I thought 3rdSeason was some hot emo girl.

Hahahahahaha!

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Dec 27 2006 21:30

hmmmm well first off a cant say i have never spent anytime looking at the free porn clips scatered on the internet wife would kill me if she new but i just cant help it sometimes well the whole point of this reply was to discuss something i have noticed during the periode of sexual curiosity (lol) after awhile i started noticing that it is often the same companie (male's) that are in each video prob a couple 100 for every 10 yrs of movies however unlike in the 70's and 80's i never see the same girl twice.... ever i mean im no hardcore porn watcher i dont have a pass or watch any vivid movies just like to peek at little clips sometimes but in that if i spend like an hour just clicking through clips not even watching them all the way through i do notice the girls their charecteristics and weather or not they sem to be having a good time (they usually are) well to make a long story short i would say there has got to be more woman in porn then there are alive on the planet today wtf. so when people like ol lone wolf ask "why is it the womans behavior in question and not the man" i say there u go go to pinkworld or sexoasis and see that everyday 1000's yes 1000's of new WOMAN r making porn every damn day i refuse to belive even half of them r getting paid

people say men think about sex every 30 sec or something like that i bet i can tell u why cause woman r out there begging for some attention without any care as to how they get it so just do yourself a fav next time your looking at porn on the net (and u all r doin it) be carefull not to notice your sister mom or daughter cause sooner or later u r gonna see one of them bent over some guy that could be mistaken for a tree trunk screaming things that will echo in your mind for the rest of your life and then u try to tell me its the men that need to be held accountable hot shot tongue

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Dec 27 2006 21:42

Actors in "looking like they enjoy something" shocker!

Fuck off, child.

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Jan 25 2012 10:10

Because like you say "we men" are lame, when we where young and where still green, we would have done everything to get some pussy, drive to the other side off the country, buying expensive gifts, going out all the time, bying a nice car to impress a girl, being around all the time etc... but things change after a while you just want instant sex when you want it the time you want it and the place. Men become lame because women make it so hard for men to get any. Some marry to have pussy around when they want it others just use porn and prostitutes, there's no such thing as instant casual free sex on offer for men all the time like there is for women.

You know it just frustrating i mean as a guy you want that girl and it takes a while for her to give it up and when you had her you can't enjoy the sex with her so much because you have that feeling the effort was to much just to get some sex. You don't have that with prostitutes. i like casuel sex but i'm not gonna beg for it or degrade myself in order to get any.

1. it's degrading for men to be used as a taxi,
2. it's degrading for men to pay for everything all the time,
3. it's degrading for men to say 'yes you do look good in that dress' out of fear
that saying what you really think can make the month a no sex month.
4. it's degrading for men to have to buy a drink in order to talk to a girl at the bar.
5. it's degrading for men to have to beg for sex all the time.
6. it's degrading for men women expect chivelry all the time from men,
holding the door open for them,
7. it's tdragrading for men women are valued more then childeren,
fraze: women and childeren first, they don't say children and women first,
no men in this line meaning there expandable.
etc....

Men don't expect anything from a women, we are already happy when she's a nice girl and doesn't nag all the time, where already happy when she want's it only one time a week, i mean try to see it from ower prospective, i mean imagen you where a guy what would you be willing to do, how far are you willing to lower yourself in order to get any???

Some men just see it as less degrading for them to buy sex than to chase women all the time and doing shit they feel bad about in order to get any.

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Jan 25 2012 10:46

Sexism at its best. Good job mate!

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Jan 25 2012 10:51

Sexist idiot banned. And thread locked because it's six years old

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