A Solidarity Federation member from Fife who posted on libcom as "Picket" commited suicide in March 2014. He was well liked and we did not know details about his history of depression. He did contract work as a computer programmer and there is no doubt in my mind that circumstances surrounding his work had a strong direct influence leading to his death.
That's awful and I'm really
That's awful and I'm really sorry to hear that. Condolences and love to his friends, family and comrades.
Sorry about the delay in
Sorry about the delay in posting this notice since the event of his death. We have, with input and support from some other Solfed members, enquired about his burial place to pay our last respect to our comrade, but we have not been provided that information. The person who contacted our members in Edinburgh about his suicide (his sister) is married to a cop and there was apparently some tension between him and them.
I was shocked to hear about
I was shocked to hear about his death in the other thread. I can't really say anything other than to offer my condolences to those who knew him personally, and that I'll always remember him as a genuinely sincere and helpful person.
RIP Picket
Sorry to hear this whoever it
Sorry to hear this whoever it is but can anyone clarify if this was Picket, formerly known as Pikel on Libcom?
Yes, it is. Picket
Yes, it is. Picket
So sorry to hear this. RIP
So sorry to hear this. RIP Picket.
very sad ... Picket presente!
very sad ... Picket presente!
So sorry to hear this. RIP
So sorry to hear this. RIP and solidarity forever.
AES wrote: Yes, it is.
AES
Aw man. I sent him a PM on Feb 26th to ask him how he was as I hadn't seen him on the forums for a while. He didn't reply which was unusual.
Such a shame, he had a great sense of humour and seemed so kind and easy going.
I was looking through some of
I was looking through some of the discussions he participated in remembering his kind demeanor. Picket was also a very thoughtful contributor and will be missed by people who never met him and were geographically distant. Here is one such contribution, good stuff.
Picket
Whoa ... Not sure if I read
Whoa ... Not sure if I read his stuff, but hate to hear about this tradegy
Truly sad to hear
Truly sad to hear
This is such sad news I'm
This is such sad news :(
I'm reading through some of his old threads and getting choked up. This one especially:
http://libcom.org/forums/general/it-wrong-me-want-cheer-people-24112013
I hadn't heard from him in a while so was planning on dropping him a line. We had spoken several times of e-mail as he offered several times to help out with libcom on the technical side of things, but whenever we planned to meet it didn't work out. When he was down in London a while ago we planned to meet up but unfortunately I was ill and it didn't happen, so sadly I never got to meet him. He also donated very generously to libcom while he was working.
This is such terrible news. My sincere condolences to everyone who cared for him, his friends, comrades, and family
Reading through all of them,
Reading through all of them, have just seen this one:
http://libcom.org/forums/general/quandry-15112013
I didn't see this thread at the time. I know he did say that he had depression, but looking back on that with hindsight it looks like maybe things were really bad, and he was just putting a brave face on :(
RIP
RIP :(
AES wrote: Sorry about the
AES
I don't know about burial, but having a google he was cremated at Mortonhall Crematorium
Quote: This is such terrible
Having lost 4 friends to suicide and quite a few more through drugs, accidents and serious illness my experience is that for the family of anyone that takes their own life, their loss is even harder to come to terms with. Guilt can be the overriding emotion that prevents the grieving process taking it's natural course. I really hope this isn't the case here.
It's very corny, but it really is good to try to think about positive memories. Like most of us I didn't really know Piket very well but we did exchange many PMs and a lot of them were very funny and upbeat. 'Mini raves' were a bit of a theme(instigated by the post about dancing on the doorstep) - after I had told him that I was going to take the opportunity for a mini rave in the bathroom whilst going for a piss, in the last line of his last PM to me on Christmas Eve he wrote: 'hope you enjoyed your 'rain dance''. A joke for the ravers!
I'll make that my abiding memory.
RIP. Those threads he started
RIP. Those threads he started were heart breaking. xx
My condolences to all
My condolences to all comrades who knew him.
Quite shocked to read about
Quite shocked to read about this on the other thread this morning. Just want to send my condolences to his family, friends, and comrades. RIP Pikel, libcom was definitely a better place for having you here. You'll be missed.
Steven. wrote: ... he was
Steven.
Thanks a lot. I've found the entry, that's very helpful.
RIP Picket, Another good
RIP Picket,
Another good person lost to a shitty disease.
Condolences to all who knew
Condolences to all who knew him. I didn't know him, but he said something kind and supportive when a close comrade died (on the "Venting Our Despair & Supporting Each Other" thread) back in 2012. He was going through some awful shit himself, so it touched me to have him reach out to me with empathy and compassion. I wish I could've returned the favor. It's deeply saddening to see another comrade go -- much too soon. Picket, RIP.
I think the type of character
I think the type of character he was comes out well in his doorstep jig posts, someone willing to take risks for the sake of expanding relationship horizons with everyone around him. Does anyone know his age?
Really sad news Condolences
Really sad news :(
Condolences to friends and family.
Kureigo-San wrote: Does
Kureigo-San
He was 40 years old.
Sad news, R.I.P.
Sad news, R.I.P.
I choked up a little when I
I choked up a little when I read this tbh. I remember his post on libcom were kind and considerate. Unfortunately I never had the pleasure of meeting him in person. RIP
Sad news, as has been said.
Sad news, as has been said.
Perhaps besides doing our usuals, we should give a thought to taking care of each other as well. We are a community of sorts, so should try to remember the commiserational as well as the confrontational parts of that (?)
arminius, as jef says
arminius, as jef says 'another good person lost to a shitty disease'. if we knew about his health risks and support needs we might have been better able to help him cope or even understand, that is before he slipped through our fingers.
Sorry to hear about this.
Sorry to hear about this. Solidarity to Picket's comrades, friends and family
This news left me so sad when
This news left me so sad when I read it I just didn't have any words. Depression is, as Jef Costello said, a shitty disease, a monumentally shitty one. One of the first things I ever posted on libcom was in response to something Picket (then Pikel) had said and he was very open with his struggles with mental health but I also remember him as being thoughtful, with interesting and smart things to say, as well as being funny and kind. He's going to be missed around here and if anyone is able to pass on my condolences and solidarity to his friends and comrades I would really appreciate it.
RIP x